An engagement ring is a symbol of the unity of two loving hearts, marriage, family. Many signs and superstitions were associated with wedding rings, they were endowed with a sacred meaning. It was customary to wear the ring without taking it off carefully. However, everything happens in life - the engagement ring may be lost, just slip off your finger, crack. The loss or spoilage of the engagement ring is alarming for the spouses, there is fear for family relations. Many believe that the loss of an engagement ring is a bad omen, which does not bode well, leading up to treason and divorce.
Let's see if this is really so, how you can influence the omen.
Signs about the lost engagement ring
Undoubtedly, it is a shame to lose an engagement ring, especially when the couple has long been married. And the young bride is very upset. It is believed that families are blessed from above, the loss of the ring can adversely affect spouses. According to esoteric teachings, a couple who has lost the ring may lose the protection of higher powers.
The round shape of the ring turns the symbol of marriage into a talisman. The circle is often used in the manufacture of amulets, talismans, amulets. In addition, rings and other jewelry absorb the energy of a person.
If the ring is lost, do not immediately panic. Our ancestors knew how to neutralize almost any negative objects and influences. A little further we will learn how to protect yourself in case of loss of a wedding ring.
All signs associated with the loss of wedding rings can be conditionally divided as follows:
- strong discord in the family, leading to divorce;
- adultery as a result of ring loss or cause;
- deterioration of family well-being, troubles, deprivations, difficulties of a different nature.
One thing is clear - there are no good signs associated with the loss of wedding rings. However, there is an exception.
Good omen
Many believe that the engagement ring is not just a symbol of family and marriage, but also a charm that protects from adversity, evil eye, damage and any negative impact. It is known that some amulets accumulate in themselves all the bad things directed at the owner, take the trouble away from the person, take it upon themselves.
If a purification ritual is not performed over such a talisman, it may break, deteriorate, or be lost. It turns out that he has accumulated a maximum of negativity and simply can not cope.
This also applies to the engagement ring. If it is lost or deteriorated, further wearing is not possible - it could ward off trouble from the owner.
In such cases, the following can be done. Spouses acquire new same wedding rings, consecrate them in the church and put on each other's fingers, pronouncing marriage vows.
New rings again act as amulets for spouses. You can forget about the loss of the engagement ring, do not worry about this.
Losing an engagement ring - what does it mean
Signs associated with the loss of wedding rings are divided into situations in which the ring was lost. The further actions of the owner depend on this.
So, let's take a closer look:
- Losing a ring on your wedding day. This loss of ring can be taken as a warning. Perhaps the marriage will be unsuccessful, subsequently break up. This can be regarded as a sign of higher powers or Destiny.
- The loss of the ring after the wedding. In this case, most likely the couple will part in the future. The ring is gone - the spouse is gone. It is also believed that a couple has a negative magical effect, for example, the evil eye. Therefore, the ring acted as a talisman, took all the negativity onto itself.
- If a man is lost. Because of this, it is the wives who start to worry greatly. There is a fear that the husband will leave the family, change or will change, very ill.
- The ring is lost by a woman. The sign is similar to the previous one - the spouse can change, the family breaks down to divorce, the family leaves the money, material deprivations begin, attention should be paid to health.
In any case, do not despair and set yourself up for the bad - much depends on self-hypnosis, our thoughts and words are material.
Wedding ring found
It happens that after some time the engagement ring is still located. Of course, this event brings only joy.
Go to church, bless the ring, and preferably paired with the ring of the spouse. After that, you can safely carry it on and not worry.
If you find someone else's engagement ring, remember - it keeps the memory of the previous owner. It is best to clean it with salt or water, consecrate, and then melt it. Make a pendant, brooch or any item other than a ring from it.
Neutralization of bad omens
There are several conspiracies and rituals aimed at neutralizing negative events after the loss of an engagement ring.
For example, you never found your ring. What now do the second spouse with his ring?
First, new rings are acquired for both spouses. Then the old is taken, the church candle is lit and a ring is held in its light. The following words must be pronounced:
Now you can get rid of the ring, for example, donate to the temple or re-melt. If you want to save it - dip it in salt or holy water for three days, then put it in a secluded place, no one should see it.
If a decision is made not to purchase new rings, but to keep only one. You can carry out the following ritual. A beautiful white rose is bought, special words are pronounced on it:
With this rose, you must come to church, pray in front of the icon of Jesus Christ, ask for the preservation of the family and well-being.
Then the rose is placed in a vase, preferably with melt water, although you can use the usual one, put the wedding ring that has been preserved in the vase. Being nearby, each time it is necessary to pronounce:
When the rose dries, throw out the petals, and the leaves and stem can be dried and used as a talisman. Put the dried dust in a bag and place, for example, over the threshold of the house.
Despite what happened, you must try to tune yourself in for good. In addition to existing superstitions, much depends on ourselves, our mood and attitude to the situation. Do not worry, do not acquire blind faith in future negative events.
Remember that family is more than signs and superstitions. You can neutralize this event with a ritual if it helps you psychologically. Moreover, it was not for nothing that the ancestors accumulated knowledge and believed in signs. However, initially you need to tune in to the positive yourself.
